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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The initial post made in seem as though OP was previously in a functional relationship that had very recently become fraught. DH, in the initial post sounds disengaged and like he was not prioritizing his wife and might be depressed. He does sound like a twit in that post.

The fact that OP and DH were actually separated until OP found out she was pregnant adds a lot of context. I think he is deliberately making it very clear that he does not want this marriage but is staying because he feels it’s the “right” thing to do.

I don’t think OPs DH is lazy, I think he can’t stand to be around her. If this was the situation from the first post, ultimatums and talking things out might work but DH does not sound like he has any interest in repairing the marriage and desperately wants an excuse to get out. [/quote]

OP here. This makes a lot of sense. I think he does want me around, but he also wants the freedom to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants, and he can't reconcile the two.

Anyway, thanks everyone. I'm working on lining up my ducks, and I have great friends who are very supportive.[/quote]

Good. You are young. Don't waste your life on somebody who is not motivated to be with you or do things with you.[/quote]

And maybe next time don’t get pregnant while you are separated and considering divorce. In your first post I was team OP but now I think you are both behaving ridiculously. [/quote]

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