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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many people in the beginning suggested that your approach to dealing with your sister was immature.  [b]This was long before you felt a need to list your amazing qualities along with endless accounts of your troubled sister relationship.[/b][i]  After that you just proved our initial suspicions correct, and you continue to do so. [/quote]

Ummm, not quite PP. Reread the first post. I actually did make numerous comparisons between my sister and I right from the get go, from my very first post. I didn't do that in my original thread. The difference in the response between the two threads is just remarkable but probably understandable given the number of unhappy, frustrated, and tired women here in the DC metro area. Honestly, there is no other explanation for the unbelievably unsupportive and rude responses I received on this thread as opposed to the other thread.

Between my husband and my aunt who is a doctor and psychiatrist, respectively, I think I would know if I had any disorder. I don't need you psych majors from Northern Virginia Community College or Southwestern Rinky Dink University diagnosing me.

Lets see, I've been called  egocentric, a bitch, having personality disorders, that I'm quite possibly overweight, that I likely will abuse my child...Personality disorders are often characterized by belittling and disparaging someone because of one's own fragile ego. The mud slinging began first with you women, not me, and in clear response to my listing the benefits and privileges I had over my sister. So it would appear to me that it was your own ego that took a hit because I suspect you women see too much of yourselves in my description of my sister and resented that I criticized her. That was when you began the mud slinging. So it seems to me that the nasty women here fit the personality disorder characterization much better than I do.

Yes, I retaliated, but only afterward and only after the mean spirited comments.

If I were to tell you I'm slightly overweight with bad skin, live in a lower middle class neighborhood, had a poor education, and a lousy husband, I'd bet I'd get more support. Misery loves company. So shameful.

It's important to accept criticism where criticism is just and deserving. My ownership in this whole issue is that I probably should never have told my mother about my pregnancy so that it would never put her in an uncomfortable position of having to lie or withhold information. I don't like to be responsible for anyone's lying. So, no, I don't have any issue with accepting criticism where the judgment is truly fair.

I have a feeling this is not the end of it for you nasty women. You will continue to respond with snarkiness any opportunity you get on DCUM with other threads. I think it probably helps for you to vent your frustrations from life. [/quote]

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