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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Legit don’t understand women who are content to look dumpy.[/b] [/quote]

Same. Personally it puts me in a better mood when I put some effort into my appearance. [/quote]

I think the issue is that some women find that they put in a ton of effort in to dressing up and still don't like the way they look. It kind of emphasizes the problem.[/quote]

+1. I don’t dress up because I don’t look good anyways. Middle-aged women don’t suddenly look hot with a bit of lip gloss and form fitting clothes. They still look middle-aged, you can just see all the lumps and bumps from aging and childbirth. If I could throw on a dress and look good I would. I don’t. And spending all that time,energy, and anticipation to just look bad afterwards doesn’t make me feel good. It just makes me hate my appearance more.

Society puts so much pressure and emphasis on women’s appearance. It messes with your self esteem trying to fit into a mold that you can’t. [/quote]

I mean this with no snark PP, but your defeatist attitude may have something to do with why you don’t feel good about your appearance. Confidence starts from within and my guess is you’d look lovely in well-constructed clothing that accentuates your figure, lumps and bumps be damned! Also, a good moisturizer, concealer and mascara go a long way![/quote]

I see your point, but maybe PP is okay with not being attractive? She sounds like she does have self-esteem, or at least knows that her confidence and self-esteem can and should come from places other than how attractive society finds you. [/quote]

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