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[quote=Anonymous]On behalf of women everywhere.
1. I get to decide how I dress and how much maintenance I want to engage in. If you wife is clean and heathy, back off. If your wife is having trouble bathing regularly, not brushing teeth, or has mats in her hair, please work with her to get her help. 
2. Have you asked her what she wants? If her leggings and t-shirts are stained and full of holes, have you asked her if she wants new ones in similar styles? 
3. We are TIRED of managing Covid risk, school plans, awkward social situations with Covid - all on top of the normal mental load of new planning, kid activities, maintaining the house, etc. Take on some mental load from your wife. Don’t expect her to run off and paint her nails the first time you unload the dishwasher. Pick up mental load by knowing what needs to be done in your house and doing it without being asked. And then keep it up forever. Maybe after a few weeks or months she will begin to trust that you will really keep doing your share of work and she will feel like she has time to invest in herself. Maybe she will use that time to put on makeup. Maybe she will use that time to read a book. It doesn’t matter because you should be doing your fair share no matter what.

How are you looking OP? Is your back hair waxed? Are your feet callus free with clean, trimmed nails? Is your ear and nose hair trimmed? Are your undershirts white or do they have pit stains? Are your teeth white and your breath pleasant? Please do tell us what an impeccable specimen you are. [/quote]

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