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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you going on dates with guys you are attracted to?  [/quote]

I'm usually at minimum moderately attracted to my dates. I know I'm average at best in the looks department and I can't picky. [/quote]

You have got to work on your self-esteem.

Go on dates with guys you are attracted to not lukewarm about that's part f your problem right there, it's hard to act interested in someone you're meh about, and these guys can feel that and don't want to waste their time.[/quote]

Understandable, but I can't get the guys who I like interested in me, so I feel like I don't have a choice [/quote]

This is why it's paramount you need to work on your self esteem and  kind of just doing you knowing that you are awesome and not   pressuring yourself so much. I feel like some of the guys you are interested in are probably interested in you, but  you either don't think they would be so you don't seem them expressing your interest or you come on too strong or lead with your  insecurity and it puts them off. People like confident people. I'm not saying you have to change your entire personality, but there really is a bit of truth to having to love yourself first.  I say this as someone who battles self-esteem and shyness and I have noticed since working on building up myself, liking who I am. I attract more people to me in terms of just regular friendship, but also guys that I like showing interest in me.[/quote]

Nobody else will fix you. You will still be yourself. If you are not really and truly okay with yourself as you are, you will bring that into the relationship, and it poisons it.[/quote]

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