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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with “give in and make her happy” is that she will not be happy if she married a contemptible pushover who gives in whenever she makes demands.

Have some backbone FFS.[/quote]

Yes, I'm sure that she'd be a lot happier with a guy who doesn't care about what she wants.

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Do you give your children everything they want, especially if they demand it with anger and tantrums?

No, and it’s not because you don’t care what they want and don’t want them to be happy.

If you give in to emotional blackmail, [i]neither[/i] you nor the kid will be happy. And the same applies to emotional or sexual blackmail from a wife.[/quote]

That analogy is scary. A wife is supposed to be an equal partner, so NOTHING like a child.

Children have  neither the authority nor the judgement to make financial decisions . Is that how you think of your wife? If she is so childlike to you…maybe stop #*#ing her?

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Act like a child, get treated like a child. If your adult partner, male or female, tries to get what they want through tantrums and blackmail, they lose their right to be treated like an equal partner. Not least because that person is no longer treating you like an equal partner, but is saying "give me what I want or else".

She is also trying to shift the grounds for decision from judgement to emotion (do what I want or I will be sad, do what I want or I will be mad at you), which is not the proper basis for financial decisions and should be rejected every time she tries it. Just like when a child tries it![/quote]

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