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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People look at you and keep their gaze on your face for a few seconds longer than necessary. A lot of male attention, often female jealousy or other women asking for beauty/fashion advice. Random compliments,[b] extended service or offers and invitations[/b]. But also random people giving you hard time, just because, or to teach you a lesson.[/quote]

This happens in real life?[/quote]

My old dentist used to take forever to clean my teeth. He asked about any issues and I told him my jaw was aching. Stress he then gave me a cranial massage that lasted for about 45 mins.   I thought it a bit odd....but the massage was great. Every appt afterward I was offered a Cranial neck massage

Went to a plastic surgeon for Botox and he spent forever just staring at my face... admiringly.  Exquisite bone structure symmetry
Etc.

The plumber came to fix a leak we chatted about all sorts of things, he stayed for awhile he charged me $50.

I’ve never paid anywhere close to retail for any piece of furniture, car etc.  I just say oh I want that one and this is what I want to pay.  Always a ridiculously low price. The sales men flirt a bit, laugh say that I can’t give it to you for that.  How about... I hold firm and smile and say no I want that one and I am paying this amount. Works like a charm.

Job interviews. When I walk into an office, conference room I can see the startled expressions. The men always shift in their chairs as their faces instantly light up. If a male has the final say I always get an offer.

When I was dating... the sweet ones would shake with excitement, or nervousness. I went out on a lot of dates. Always dinner dates and alway very nice restaurants. Always seated at a great table and I always got asked out again.

I’ve dropped stacks of paper, groceries, etc and never once had to bend to pick up anything. Even on busy streets, even in the middle of a crosswalk during rush hour. Several people always will stop to help me.

I ran out of gas ⛽️ on the highway. Got out and stood next to my car for maybe 3 mins... had no idea what to do. Then a nice man pulled over to help. He left get me some gas. I stayed at my car and no sooner then he drove away another call pulls up and another man offers assistance, the cars kept pulling up one after the other to offer assistance.  About 10 cars later he returned with the gas. The last man who pulled over to help Offered to wait around to make sure I was safe. He just sat in his car and waited with me. When the Good Samaritan retuned he followed me to the gas station to make sure I had no more problems.

I was back stage after a concert and random people kept walking up to me to ask for my autograph.  I felt really bad having to tell this little girl I was a nobody.

A friend told me I was the most beautiful woman she’d ever seen in person.

Gay men approach me a lot to tell me how ferocious I am.

Gay women hit on me.

Babies never cry when I hold them. They smile and touch my face.

I don’t have pets but friend’s cats and dogs always cozy up to me.

I smile a lot and am happy most of the time. I love to laugh. I like people. And love to hear their stories. People open up to me about very personal things. I like to compliment people and Cheer them on and or up! I am told I smile in my sleep. I Think my face is interesting. Not traditionally attractive but I think all my parts just work really well together.’ I’ve been told I’m stunning.

But I really think it’s just that I am really good picking at up on what makes people tick and reflecting back to them something that they really need to see or hear. 
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Most of this list isn’t about being attractive.  It is about being confident, attractive, AND being willing to take advantage of it in many ways.  There are things you do that my personality just wouldn’t allow me to do.  One of them being standing outside of your car on a street. Of course you are going to get 10 cars stopping. And then waiting in a strange guys car??  Nope, not for me. [/quote]

i don't think you understood that PP's point. let's say someone below average-looking had been in the same exact scenarios. they might have not received the same treatment as she did.[/quote]

Maybe, but I think I am not making myself clear either.  I attract attention. I don’t like the attention.  As, an example, I would never get out of the car on the street because I don’t want 10 guys stopping.  It would make me feel insecure (an issue I have clearly).  If I drop something and when people rush, I’m embarrassed and say something like, thanks so much, but I can clean it up.”  At a job interview, or when I walk in a room and men look at me, I don’t like it and think “Ugh- why would I want to spend my time dealing with the sexual politics of this place.”  Honestly, I’ve probably limited my career and life choices to avoid this, but there you go. PP on the other hand, dives right in and takes it all on.

So I guess what I’m trying to say is that her attractiveness is one portion of the PPs existence, but how she deals with her attractiveness is personality and that probably gets her more and she is more willing to agree to those terms. She would probably agree with me as she also stated, “ But I really think it’s just that I am really good picking at up on what makes people tick and reflecting back to them something that they really need to see or hear.”[/quote]

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