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[quote=Anonymous][quote]What difference does it make what reason someone had to leave their marriage, when they start making plans to leave?

The outcome is the same. [/quote]

You are saying that because the end is the same the means are justified.  Really?  Contrast a woman who is being abused and is keeping her plans to leave her marriage secret because she fears for her life to, well, you.  You kept your plans secret because keeping them sercret offered you the opportunity to increase your economic status when you were single.  In the partnership that was your marriage, you hid your plans from your partner because it worked to your advantage.

[quote]The totality of my “plot” was going back to work in order to be able to [b]stand on my own two feet[/b], which BENEFITS HIM because he does not have to foot the entire bill of raising the kids, nor does he pay alimony.
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Sure.  By stand on your two feet, you mean "having a career that will allow you the freedom to date".  How did lying to him benefit him?

[quote]Same as any other woman unhappy in a marriage for any other reason.[/quote]

Please refer to my example above noting the difference between you and a woman who wants to leave her marriage because she is being abused.

[quote]You NEVER answered my question about what you think these women should do.[/quote]  I will do so in my next post.  You never answered my question about how long you kept your husband in the dark about your desire to start dating.[/quote]

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