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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every morning, I, a divorced dad with custody…
- get kids up and dressed
- make my breakfast and the kid breakfasts 
- make the kids their lunch and pack it up
- feed the cats
- unload and load d/w
- scoop the litter box
- make kids put on sunblock
- take them to camp

And usually some other little things as well.

This is not hard. Not a big deal. Anyone can do this.[/quote]
and this exactly shows that men can do it, but a lot of the times, they just choose not to.

My DH can do it, too.

It's a load of crock that men can't do it.[/quote]

The only men I've ever spoken to who understand what most mothers do are gay men who are parents.  They get it.  There is no woman around who they can assume will pick up their slack.  Most of the lesbian and gay parents I know have the most equitable parenting arrangement as their arrangements are less colored by what society has taught us what women should do and what men should do.

(I think divorced men with full custody know too, but I don't know anyone like that.  Most divorced men I know are still putting a lot of work on their ex-wives or their current wife.)[/quote]

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