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[quote=Anonymous]Np here.  If OP were a guy, people would be freaking out that he wanted to leave his wife for being overweight and not successful enough but otherwise a great mom.  Just putting that out there.

OP, you have to decide what’s right for you.  I think what seems kind of off about your post is that you seem to be basing your decision entirely on whether you’d be able to find another husband.  As many have mentioned, the decision to divorce should be about whether or not you want to be in your marriage, not whether or not you can trade up.

That said, if you resent your husband, there are issues in your marriage.  If you don’t think you can move past those issues, perhaps divorce is appropriate.

I will say that karma can be harsh.  If your sole reason for divorcing him is his weight and job and feeling as if your looks and job entitle you to someone “better,” understand that things can change.  He could lose weight, fall into a better job and remarry, and you could end up meeting someone who then breaks up with you for someone else.  Karma is tricky like that.[/quote]

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