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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They leave a path of hurt and diminish the women whose lives they touch with their deceit.  The serial cheater ultimately only loves him or herself.  Do not think that they love or care for you as a spouse or other woman.  They don't but they are good manipulators who will make you think they do.  Until they tire of you, or get bored, then they will unceremoniously and abruptly leave their life partners for a better model, or breadcrumb and ghost their affair partners.  Or else subject their spouses to the ignominious life of being constantly insecure and threatened in their bond.  The people left behind or thus hurt, spouses, children, [b]affair partners feel terrible about themselves and often blame themselves.[/b]  Avoid that trap, it is not you, it is them, and they possess a fundamental flaw.  The saving grace is that advanced age eventually decreases or ends such behavior.  Those posed selfies where your spouse or partner looks perfect are not just being sent to you.[/quote]

Well a person that is an affair partner should blame themselves.  Duh.  Who do you think you are having sex with when the man/woman is lying and cheating on their spouse with you?  [/quote]

The cheater, man or woman, inflicts pain and hurt on everyone with their lies and deceit.  The affair partner may 'deserve' that pain and hurt, as you morally say, but they suffer in many ways as well.  The only party who truly gets what they deserve is the serial cheater, which is why I continue to believe that publicly outing a serial cheater is the only way to truly curb their selfish, bad behavior and make them more honest, faithful spouses and partners.  Sad but true, until a cheater feels and internalizes the consequences of their actions -- as opposed to compartmentalizing, deflecting and evading -- they (most) will not change.[/quote]

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