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Reply to "How do you deal with not having the life you wanted?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Honestly, as a data-driven culture we should be much more vocal about the vast material evidence that shows who you marry is the choice you make with the single greatest impact on your life[b];[/b] more than money, career success, health, even children, the person you spend your life with will give your life immeasurable meaning or misery. A good marriage is a game-changer, and people belittling the grieving that takes place after a divorce are out of their minds. It’s like a death of a life that could have been.[/quote] I'm 51 and that is something I was always told. It's true for both women AND men. Lots of studies out there. Unfortunately, so many people rush into things or just settle or make a a checklist or just look for a paycheck, ignore red flags, etc. I definitely tell my kids all of this and to always earn their own $ too, even for the girls---keep one foot partially in the workforce always. [/quote]
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