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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Realistically I think the lowest I could go from an income perspective would be about $250k for a single guy or that equivalent after alimony and child support has been deducted. Anything short of that and there’s going to be a pretty substantial income gap that will make me feel uncomfortable. Even that would present a large gap.

So you want an attractive, tall, single (not divorced) man in the top 2% of earners nationwide. You want the full package. Meanwhile, you are mid-30s, divorced and bringing two kids into the relationship making him a stepfather, or at least a man who "doesn’t mind dealing with mine 50% of the time."

You also do not want to have his children.

I hate to break it to you, but the high-quality man you are seeking is sought after by [b]ALL single, attractive women who do not have children and are in their 20s. This man has his pick of options in terms of online dating, women are clamoring to date him and willing to have his children[/b].

He doesn't care about your money, because he has his own. So given your baggage (it is baggage from his perspective), what are you offering him that he can't get from a single, childless, highly attractive 27-year-old? [/quote]

Uh no. This is so stupid. I lived in DC in my 20s and you know who I dated? Single, never married, childless (high income!) men in their 20s. I thought 38 yr olds were old and gross, divorced or not, but divorced with kids? That would have been so embarrassing. [/quote]

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To clarify, when I said this, I was agreeing with the last poster, that twenty something year olds don’t want to date guys on their late thirties, especially divorced dads.[/quote]

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