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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is like this.  I give up.  I just take care of the kids and anything else required (cleaning, laundry, helping with homework, maintaining friendships and family relationships; taking trash cans to and from the curb) and spend as much time away from him as possible. I have no time up cook in addition to working a full time job so most meals are delivery and take-out. He has a full time job but due to work from home with Covid is able to skate by doing next to nothing daily. I think it’s a combination of depression and alcoholism. I keep it together most days but cry in my car when alone. It’s exhausting and embarrassing so I don’t confide in my friends. I have lost all respect for him.[/quote]

What is your game plan? My husband is a selfish ass too and I am sick of it.[/quote]

Accept being miserable for several more years until the youngest goes to college. I went back to work full time and am trying to get our finances in order. Our DD has ADHD but my DH refuses to help me help her with homework, and says “let her fail”. Before I leave for work, after I get our kids breakfast and set up for online schooling, asks me to check his email to see if there is anything pressing while he is still in bed. He can’t go out to grocery shop or walk the dog but I see Drizly (alcohol delivery service) on Ring drop off.  This is not who i married but I feel in some way I am responsible. It’s exhausting but I am not willing to deal with shared custody.[/quote]

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