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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP you said her kids won’t even look you in the eye.  Are they on the spectrum?  Is the reason they’re so hard to manage.  They should be evaluated.[/quote]

Op here. I don’t think that’s what’s going on but of course I’m not at all qualified to make a diagnosis here.

My 2 yo we thought was on the spectrum and has been thoroughly evaluated so I’m familiar with the signs and evaluation process. Their kids do look my sister and BIL in the eye, they just sort of don’t want to deal with me so kind of pretend I don’t exist.[/quote]

Their behavior should be telling you something OP.  Kids have very good instincts.  The kids must know that you don't have their best interests at heart.  I'm sorry to say but in your repeated posts you sound very judgmental.  Kids can recognize that.  Parts of your story had me concerned about your sister.  However, your more recent posts make me much more suspicious that you are not on the up-and-up and actually being very contriving and seeking some sort of weird validation.[/quote]

Op here. Or maybe it’s because they’ve never been cared for by anyone except mom or dad since birth. [/quote] :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:  :lol: [/quote]

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