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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, yiu mentioned therapy but it sounds like yiu really need to dig in there more. You described your affair as “an error in judgment “ and minimize it in every post. It wasn’t an error in judgment, it was a choice (a whole series of choices), and your continuing choices (to date AP, shove him in your ex’s face, etc.), all point to a really selfish decision-making process driven by self-gratification and a lack of remorse or empathy. The lack of remorse is appalling - you and your AP blew up two families, and you don’t recognize the trauma you caused your ex and eventually, your kids. They will turn on you when they find out not only what you did, but especially the position you continue to try and out your ex in. Be better.[/quote] Maybe her ex was a complete douche and the affair doesn't warrant remorse. There's so much we don't know. I can't stand the black and white judgment and projection.[/quote]
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