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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know if I would ever actually divorce unless there was a very clear unequal division of labor like 90 10. But the way we're sitting right now it's more 70/30. I do wish that the expectations of men in relationships were a lot higher than what they are. If I quit my job or standard of living would change quite drastically so I keep working for our family and contributing I wish all husbands contributed that same amount in home labor. I think the women's movement really screwed a lot of us over in that now we have to work but we also are expected to do all of the things our grandmother's used to do around the house. My husband's mom was a stay-at-home mom and we have had a few come to Jesus moments about why I will not be doing every task for DH she used to for his dad. If finally came to me saying fine I'm quitting and these are all of the things that we will need to remove from our life so I can wash your socks since you can't seem to handle that. He realized that we do need my money and my salary and there's no way in hell I'm raising him and our children.[/quote]
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