Reply to Official my DH is an ass on Mother’s Day 2021 thread

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Official my DH is an ass on Mother’s Day 2021 thread"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve been arguing for the last three days. Now he’s out with the kids I guess pulling together gifts and breakfast. At this point, I don’t care about gifts. [b]I just want a husband who takes accountability for his wrongdoings and partners with me so we both can be better for ourselves and each other.[/b] He’s never wrong, he’s never accountable, he’s never sorry. I really believe he’s narcissistic. Every time I bring an issue to him, he changes the conversation to be about something that I did, tells me everything I have to say is a lie, not true, made up, or “I’m reaching”.

What sucks even more is this is his first Mother’s Day without his mom, and I can’t even bring myself to be supportive. I’m just emotionally drained and ready for tomorrow. [/quote]

This is the problem. People want their husbands to be different the other 364 days a year so they decide to freak out when he's not magically different on Mother's Day.

My husband is awesome 365 days a year, so Mother's Day doesn't mean that much to me. Yes my kids wrote down some things they love about me, and that was sweet, and yes my husband took us out to lunch and was great all day, but given that my kids and I talk about the things we love about our family members all the time, and the fact that my husband regularly takes the kids to do things and thanks me for being an awesome wife and mom, I don't need to freak out that everything is perfect on one single day.

All the people I know with solid marriages and happy lives couldn't care less about Mother's Day. The ones who want some grand gestures are lacking in their lives the rest of the year and expect for this one day to make up for it. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics