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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD 7th grade has been spent virtual all year. People keep telling me how lucky I am we avoided a year of the MS drama. I'm so perplexed by this. What are these girls doing in MS? MS was not bad for me at all. [/quote]

That means you were probably one of the mean girls.[/quote]

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Oh come on.  I'm not that poster, but I had an ok time in MS too.  I was not popular at all, I was smart and nerdy.  A few instances of meanness to me here or there, but nothing traumatic.  It was stressful only in that I sometimes wondered if people would start bullying me, but it didn't happen.  I went to a large school where it was possible to just get lost in the crowd.

This kind of question attracts answers who were definitely affected by MS, but it doesn't mean that the world is separated into mean girls and those who were bullied.  [/quote]

How was that ok? Oppressed, wondering if you would be bullied, having to be lost in the crowd... Sounds like misery.[/quote]

Well, I didn't think about it all the time.  I had school subjects to think about, and family and other things I was doing.  I had a group of friends who were neither the cool group nor the very uncool group, and we were good friends and sometimes we had conflict but most times we got along.  If you asked me at the time, I would say yeah, sometimes I worried but it didn't dominate my thoughts.

Is that not the case in most stages of life?  There are a lot of things going on at the same time.   If you had a co-worker who you had conflict with, it might cause you stress sometime, but did you think about it 24/7?
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