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[quote=Anonymous]Totally random story but I was friends with an attractive male tour guide in India.  He was married with a child but often felt like he was backed into a corner to sleep with female clients in order to receive the tips his income depended on.  He said it was almost always russian divorcees and was clear pressure (vs them making a small overture to see if there was a positive response and if not still treating him with respect and tipping well).  i was surprised b/c I'd never really pondered the way men can feel forced into unwanted sex, but when you're in a profession where your income depends heavily on what the customer reports that is an awful lot of pressure

so all of that is to say i think a small overture is fine (and would be fine for a male to do to a seemingly interested female guide also) but if its not enthusiastically reciprocated and escalated back way off.  you do have a lot of power in this situation for someone that may be very dependent on the tips / income and very scared of a dissatisfied customer complaint[/quote]

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