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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I totally support you in this. It's your day (and time off) that you should get to choose how you spend it. Sounds like you already had a great plan for how you would and you should stick to it! For context, my brother came to me last year and asked me to help plan something for his wife's 40th birthday. The first thing I said to him, is well what does she want to do? I know her and no she's not into big surprises or being the center of a part, but he had no idea and hadn't considered to ask her what she wanted. I reminded him that she should have a say, and I'd happily help if what she wanted required it, but was in no way jumping in to take over her plans (or lack there of). She ended up wanting a small family dinner - which she got, on her terms and her request. [/quote]
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