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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am the PP who asked about the psychological impact of sex rejection, and to some extent the female mirror image situation of what you have.   I would say to ignore the people who are talking about you having a "victim mentality".  I think rather you are asking for anonymous public advice on what next steps to take in your life.  Overall, it sounds like you are having fantasies of a revenge situatino also wher you get to turn the tables and "reject" your wife or have a justifiable affiar?  I get this and it is easy to want an eye for an eye, kind of situation.....  My big picture advice -- since you mentioned finances, etc.- is to focus now on getting your financial house in order, on making sure this personal situation isn't distracting you from your job-- and to always remember that "the best revenge is success." So cast your eye on a bigger prize than just a mere affair or rejection fo your wife.... .ubt instead focus on being the BEST YOU that you can be in 2012 (it sounds corny i know) and see if you can exceed your goals in career, finances, etc, and I guess masturbate in the interim..... but maybe your confidence will be the appeal....and if it is that your wife is trying to drag you down, then I would give yourself a three year ball park game to do an exit strategy...but make sure your career/physicque (gym/facials if necessary...yes even guys can get them) and your clothes and your career and house....etc....are all in order........okay, so just a woman's advice..... if you are moving on to the next step to search for love again, you will be more attractive to women at large if y9ou are confident/making the most of the next year and opportunities....and get your revenge by making the most of yourself..... you are young still and it is never to late to find another true love....[/quote]

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