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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every day this forum reminds me why I stay away from men. Ladies, I hope it gets better for each of you soon. [/quote] +1 Lesbian here. My wife and I have our issues but damn. Could not have made it with a dude even if I had wanted to. [/quote] :roll: Just as it’s ridiculous to generalize about all women, it’s ridiculous to generalize about all men. - A woman who is happy in her marriage to a man[/quote] I'm not really generalizing. https://www.them.us/story/gay-marriage-is-better https://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/04/same-sex https://www.advocate.com/people/2020/2/13/study-gay-people-have-happier-marriages-straight-people Anecdotally speaking, we have tons of married friends - gay and straight. From those observations alone, I stand by what I said. Of course not every man is the same, and that's not what I said. Not the first time straight ladies have gotten butt hurt over this observation on DCUM. [/quote] I’m not straight; I’m bi. I just happen to be married to a man. Also, none of your links actually prove that heterosexual marriages are less stressful or last longer than same-sex marriages. One of them says it’s too early to tell, based on the data available, and the other two links show that men in hetero marriages and women in same-sex marriages show similar stress levels. [/quote] “A recent study found that same-sex couples generally feel more satisfied in their marriages than heterosexual couples do.” Does more satisfied not mean less stressful to you? Also - “Heterosexual marriages ‘are more subject to tension, miscommunication and resentment than same-sex relationships,’ the Times wrote, suggesting that the disparity is caused by typical gender roles and expectations.” Are all men the same? No. Are all same sex relationships perfect? No. But the fact remains that we had to work harder and put more effort into the families that we have and that we made and therefore we are often more cognizant about putting in the work to make our spouses happier. As a bisexual woman you must also recognize the privilege you have in being able to identify as bi while reaping the benefits that heterosexual couples enjoy. Happy to keep going if you want. [/quote]
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