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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We know little about op. Are there kids? Etc.
But the fact that the husband doesn’t seem to care about the damages he’s done tells me that he’ll do it again at some point. 
I’m a guy. I’ve Cheated and been cheated on and I can say that if you act like nothing has happened then there are no consequences and it’s just gonna happen again. 
Good luck[/quote]

Their response matters.  Their ACTIONS matter the most.  The amount of time they continue to do the work on their own without anyone telling them to do matters.  The behavior they show at home matters.

I have seen marriages grow stronger when the cheater is truly remorseful and accountable and willing to discuss it as long as the betrayed spouse needs to.  They continue with individual therapy indefinitely and address the issues that allowed them to lie and betray.  Some of these marriages when it was a midlife thing and out of character and the marriage was very happy prior come out of it much stronger.

But, I agree, OP's situation does not sound like he's there.[/quote]

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