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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you genuinely like your SIL and spending time with her, what about proposing outings and including her and her children? You, your kids plus grandma, SIL and her kids? Maybe a weekend to a lake, a trip to an amusement park, the zoo? Drive to a close by city for an educational trip, like Jamestown or Williamsburg or something. No dad, just the moms and kids. Then, the cousins are able to spend time together and grandma gets to be with all her grandkids? Doing something like that once or twice a year would probably be very meaningful to your mother and fun for the kids. You can't get your brother to change. It is not worth it and if you have a good relationship with your SIL, then nurture that relationship on your own terms. Don't complain about your brother, just focus on your SIL and what you value about her, and the children. [/quote]
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