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Do you think she poses a danger to your child?

If yes, then definitely use any information you have to block your ex's custody arrangements in her presence.

If no, then stop being jealous and get with the program, because the sooner you do, the better off your child will be.

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OP here - I know absolutely nothing about her. I doubt she is dangers, but honestly, no idea. I'm not jealous about their relationship. In fact, quite the opposite. She can have him. He is  a serial cheater, so best case scenario is he manages to make it worth with this one, rather than exposing DS to a revolving door of women. My concern is that there has been no introduction at all prior to this big moving-in step.[/quote]

Well then suggest an introduction beforehand. [b]Not sure it will make a difference to your child, to be honest.[/b] To him, she's just going to be a woman who's there. Hopefully she will be calm, kind, and approach him with sensitivity. You should have a conversation about that with your ex. In some situations where the parent is not a good father or mother, sometimes it's the new partner who makes the situation better!

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I don't agree with this at all. It causes a lot of confusion for a child who is used to seeing their parents together and suddenly dad is shacking up with someone else. Been there, done that, and it did not go over well with my kid at all. [/quote]

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