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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, and OP — make sure that in your settlement there is gain for your pain. But you also have to know what you cannot control his behaviour, and he cannot control yours.

Some of this is just desperate grasping at straws for a dying marriage. The sooner the healing and normalization can begin for everyone, the better.

You cannot control what people do, but you can control how you choose to respond to a situation. Feelings aren’t always fair, and someone always loses something when a family splits. It is heartbreaking and sad to see more people fight each other in anger than unite and fight for their marriages and relationships and children instead.

We don’t know any details and only one side of the story. But no matter what, there is a child, and their interest comes first.  Both parents get a say, like it or not, in what that looks like. Unless the child is in grave danger. And splashing your DNA all over the city isn’t a true threat to a child. There are literally parents that sexually abuse or beat children to death, and face consequence later. It isn’t something to make light of.[/quote]

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