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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oldest son had a 3.3 or 3.4. Went to Indiana University. Failed out.

No light switch goes off at college. You know how you ride him now for the 3.3? Well, you can't at college, he can do literally anything he wants at college. And will. The 3.3 tells me your son hates school.

If we could do it over again we would have encouraged him to go into the military for a few years. He was smart but way too immature, zero discipline, and didn't appreciate anything.[/quote]

OP, this is some of the worst advice I have read of all the years I have been on DCUM.  First, the 3.25 - 3.4 GPA is not an indicator of failure.  Some kids bloom late.  That was me.  I had a low to average GPA and struggled the first year to get my footing but was determined to stay and by sophomore year, my grades improved and I had adjusted to the college rigor.  I graduated with honors and got into a top law school.  Just make sure the college has good support services available.  Some colleges have a pre-college or summer bridge program the summer prior to the start of freshmen year.  If you think your child may need that, he/you should factor that into your college search.  It is an extra fee but if it will help your child have a smooth transition, it is worth it.  [/quote]

2021 is not the same as the 70s, 80s or 90s when you were a kid. EVERY kid has As and Bs these days. You have to be a lazy midwit who hates school to have a low 3.25. And if the mother is posting on here, it means she's engaged and they're riding his *** for the 3.25 -- so if they didn't ride him he's a C student in an era when As are given to everyone. But sure, go ahead and send him to some expensive college and then act surprised when he's the same immature flunky -- but this time with nobody riding him and access to booze, drugs, netlix and video games all day.[/quote]

JFC.  My kid works hard and has almost no As - at a top FCPS HS.  Live your own life and stop attacking kids you know nothing about.
DP[/quote]

All APs? Rigor is as important as grades so he or she is fine! [/quote]

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