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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dragging things out in divorce is such a petty behavior. Whether you were wronged or right. It is a controlling holding pattern and abusive. I’d want to be free of it as soon as possible, but different strokes for different folks, I guess.[/quote] I'd argue the controlling and abusive behavior was the years of cheating, gaslighting and emotional abuse. [/quote] None of it matters. Work out money and custody and move on. Or, instead of the money going to your child it will all go to attorneys. [/quote] NP and I think OP's theory is that 50% of $440K HHI minus attorney fees over X years is greater than 50% of current assets now minus lower attorney fees. At that level of income OP might be right, hard to tell how hard the DH will push for the divorce.[/quote] You don't get 50 percent of HHI. If the company was formed during the marriage she may get half of that but she has income so she gets her income. [/quote]
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