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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They don't WANT your friends at THEIR wedding. Those are YOUR friends, not theirs.  So no, don't offer to pay for your extra friends.

Just don't bring it up again to anyone and if any of the friends who WON'T be invited bring it up, just lie and tell them that after the bride & groom finalized their wedding budget they are having a very small, intimate wedding. [/quote]

OP here. But again, they'll be able to see with their own eyes from the photos and from Facebook and from the invites couples that this is just not true! It's a close circle and they'll know from the new who are invited that it isn't small or family-only.[/quote]

NP. Here’s an idea: you could stop being a narcissist and [b]thinking you’re entitled to put photos of someone else’s event on your Facebook page. Grow up and get your own life. [/b]

Thinking you’re entitled to invite 14 of your friends to someone else’s event is almost unbelievable. I think you should uninvite the entire lot  of them. They are not who the couple wants at their wedding. Then you don’t need to choose. The couple invites THEIR friends and the other parents might invite some which may be okay since they’re actually paying for it.[/quote]

Hold up, is this the social media rule now?  Nobody should post any pics of attending a birthday party, or a promotion celebration, or a retirement celebration?  How about their kids high school or college graduation?  Or a friends' large Memorial Day barbeque?

This seems so very wrong, and just piling on the OP.  She made a mistake.  She admitted it.  But setting aside the fact that she "already invited"  She IS in a bind.  She has a fairly distinct circle of seven couples and she has to decide which 5 to invite.  Of course the couple getting married has the absolute right to decide how many people to have at their wedding.  It doesn't mean she isn't in a tough spot and needs to figure out how to navigate through it...[/quote]

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