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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- update.

She messaged the group today and said she's really looking forward to seeing everybody in "Reedeville". That's where my DH's river house is.

The thing is- "Reedeville" was never mentioned in the details. She messed up. If we are to believe her she would have no knowledge of the location.[/quote]

She didn't mess up. You don't know what conversations she's had outside the chat. She is clearly closer to part of the group than others. It is odd that you are making something out of this. On the trip, her memory will probably be refreshed. She is not secretly carrying a torch for her middle school boyfriend. You guys are not rivals. I hope you act normally on the trip.[/quote]

Wrong. There are only 4 organizers. She spoke with 1. No mention of Reedeville was made. She slipped up. It's OK you don't want to believe that.[/quote]

You don't know everyone she has spoken with. If it is a large group, she could have spoken to people who spoke to other people who mentioned the house. Maybe side emails went around. Or maybe she didn't remember your DH at first and then it came back to her.  Maybe she finds her middle school relationship embarrassing and does not want to reference it or have it referenced, so she is pretending it never happened. Maybe she heard from someone that you are very possessive or combative, and is sending a message that she has no interest in your husband by pretending not to know him. All of these seem more likely conclusions than that she is pretending to have forgotten because she has designs on your husband.  There is no way to explain how bizarre it is to be focused on your husband's MIDDLE SCHOOL girlfriend's possible feelings for your husband. You are revealing so much about yourself, your husband and your relationship with these concerns.

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