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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]RUN.

This is a RED FLAG.  This is emotional abuse and you are lucky to get this warning now.

I am in the midst of trying to escape a 24 year marriage full of this.  The silent treatment is a warning that he is abusive.  HE WILL NOT CHANGE.  IT WILL GET WAY WORSE.  Trust me - I KNOW.

It’s over.  He’s not really the person he has been portraying to you.  The silent treatment is the real him beginning to emerge.  He’s fake.

You will have a horrible life with a fake person if you stay.[/quote]

Oh and I should also mention that he has been giving me the silent treatment right now for 1.5 months.  Yes, we live together and it’s HORRIBLE.  I am working on my exit plan.  Don’t let this happen to you.[/quote]

I am so so so very sorry that you are experiencing this. I hope you find a place where you can rebuild your confidence as you prepare to exit. I would rather someone raise their voice and fumble a few words than ignore me for a MONTH. You know how people that commit horrible crimes are punished? They go to jail. Do you know how they punish people in jail? They put them in ISOLATION.

It is abuse, it is wrong, and my heart goes out to you. I hope you find a new safe space and soon.[/quote]

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