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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I finally figured out what bugs me about Rachael L. It's this right here. "What I wanted to shout in that conversation is, 'You're right Chris Harrison? Who are you? Who are you to say something because you aren't the person who's been offended by the very actions that she is affiliated with by the things that she's done? Who is Rachel Lindsay? Rachel Lindsay is a Black woman—the very person who is affected by this Rachael Kirkconnell. So, I have every right to speak out and say I'm offended, I have every right to say this is what she should do, and I have every right to demand the apology." I'm good all the way until she says "I have every right to tell her what she should do and I have every right to demand an apology." No you don't. Well, you can demand it, but you may or may not get it. You can think you have every right to tell someone what they should do, but you don't. You don't control anyone else but yourself. This is what irks me about her. [b]She wants to control everyone else, while reaping the benefits of going on a show, finding her husband, and now she's going to play puppet master and control everyone's thoughts and actions? No. You may not like their thoughts and actions, and you may complain about them, but you don't get to demand anything of another human being,[/b] nor do you get to tell them how to act, however abhorrent you find their actions to be. [/quote] How is Rachel Lindsay more at fault than either Rachel K or Chris Harrison being condescending and defending racist behavior? At the end of the day, Chris H will be back and Rachel K will have even more IG followers etc but people will stay mad at Rachel L. Why is reaping benefits of the show even relevant to this conversation? By that argument you could be upset that Chris Harrison is reaping the benefits of the show while doing x or Rachel K gets to reap the benefits while doing y, but the only thing that rubs you the wrong way is that Rachel L, has benefitted from by being on the show, which you can say for hundreds of people that are involved in the franchise, and has an opinion that you don’t agree with. Throwing that into the mix sounds very much like a “know your place and be happy for what you have” type comment and that rubs me the wrong way.[/quote]
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