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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny who works for a family with three boys--after the 2nd they said they were done and if mom got pregnant again she'd have an abortion. Dad wouldn't get snipped--balked at it, and mom got pregnant at 40. Went in for the abortion, but couldn't do it after seeing the sonogram. They now have 3 kids. Dad is a stay at home dad, and didn't want another kid, but I figure if he REALLY didn't want a third he should have gotten snipped right after the second kid was born. He ran out and had the procedure after mom refused the abortion. Suddenly it wasn't such a scary idea. Everyone needs to take responsibility--in your case, I can kind of see your husband's point since you had said 2 or 3, but I also see your side where you know you're done. You need to have a conversation with him about what you'd do if you got pregnant with a third. If he doesn't want you to have an abortion then he needs to get snipped. [/quote] No it shouldn't come down to an abortion! The wife should have refused sex until he got a vasectomy, that simple. [/quote]
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