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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your DH won’t wear a condom??? That’s all kinds of wrong. Pull out method is very, very unreliable so you are rolling the dice. I had very difficult pregnancies. I was on the pill pre-pregnancy and felt like I just couldn’t go back to that. I preferred to not get an IUD, too. DH saw all I went through (pregnancy and childbirth) and felt he couldn’t ask me to do more with my body. So he knew he needed to man up and get a V. He procrastinated. So one-unplanned pregnancy later (we have four kids), he finally got around to it. It was fine and he’s takes many friends into it. It’s great not having to worry about pregnancy. You need to start using condoms. And if your DH gets tired of them, his choices should be to get a vasectomy or continue to using condoms. That feels like a fair choice for him. [/quote] +1 He is an adult and responsible for his own reproductive organs - he can control his own sperm. Doesn't want to get a vasectomy? Use condoms. Easy peasy. [/quote]
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