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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP with autistic DD again. Grandmother just called and urged us to “support niece” by attending bat mitzvah.  Now we will be the bad guys if we don’t. Smh[/quote]

I'm so unclear on this. When grandmother says this, do you not respond with something like "when will my dc be supported? " I would even lay it right out and say "dc will he invited to few parties by friends. We would think family would have supported and welcomed us unconditionally.  You're talking about my child like some sort of animal that's uncontrollable and filthy and noisy. How dare you!" 
The worst part of this is You're now expected to give her a gift after this outrageous insult.
Idk. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. I would make it clear this isn't allowed.[/quote]

DP  I would suggest the niece isn't ready for her bat mitzvah.  She, clearly, needs to go back and study a lot more if she thinks an undisturbed ceremony is more important than demonstrating you understand how to live a moral and just life.  Excluding someone with a disability like this is shameful and contrary.[/quote]

+1. These so-called family members are treating your daughter like an inconvenience, someone to be ashamed of and avoided. Blow it up. Call it out. [/quote]

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