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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop the dogpile. Plenty of us have 3 kids those ages and haven't gained 30-40lbs. That is excessive in 4 years! 5-10lbs is more normal. If she's overwhelmed maybe being a sahm isn't working for her and you all should get more help or a nanny. [/quote]

Thank you.  I think if she really cared, she could have maintained her weight.  
And she isn’t a SAHM.  She is also an essential employee, but she works part time and goes in later than I do, which is why I suggested that she work out before the kids get up in the morning.  
We do have a nanny here while she is working, and we have a weekly housekeeper.  I will talk to her about getting a chef as well.  Maybe that would be a good way to open the conversation.  [/quote]

Huh. So many people have explained to you why you are going about this the wrong way, and you decided to only pay attention to comments that affirm your pre-conceived notions. It’s unfortunate that you can’t reflect on your motives and feelings about your wife, for both her and you. Even if your wife should care more, your statements here suggest your character could use a lot of improvement.  But I guess that won’t happen and I and many others just feel sorry for your wife. [/quote]

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