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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

So I pushed it. I asked him what he considered petite.

He said 5’1-5’4 and no more than 125-130lbs.

I told him that some 14 year olds don’t even fit in that category and he blocked me. [/quote]
Okay, so he proved what a lot of people here were saying--that "petite" is now a word that doesn't just mean short, it means slim. So everyone claiming "oh, he just likes tall girls, it's not about weight" is full of it. [/quote]
That’s true. It’s the same with “into fitness.” It’s typically just a euphemism for being thin. They would make an exception for a sedentary girl with their body type.

(I still don’t think OP should have pushed it though, [b]unless she was just trying to mess with his head, in which case, brava[/b]). [/quote]
What are you bravaing about? There’s no messing with his head? His head thinks OP is nuts and she proved that point very well.[/quote]
Oh come on. [b]It can be fun to push somebody on a point like this to make them feel uncomfortable. [/b]Like if somebody makes a passive aggressive comment, I don’t let it bother me, I just sweetly ask “oh what do you mean by that?” [/quote]
Wow, no. You enjoy being a bully. And yes, things clearly bother you because you are so reactionary.[/quote]

You know literally nothing about me and you do not know the definition of being a bully. If somebody who isn’t my friend says “wow, I really didn’t expect you to do so well on this project,” I might just ask what they mean. [/quote]
The bolded explains exactly who you are. Which is a bully. Maybe you’re rethinking your behavior; that’s a good thing.[/quote]

You must not have elementary school kids who have been taught what a bully is. Pointing out the implications of somebody’s comments is not bully behavior and even if it was, it has to be said more than once for it to actually be bullying. I am generally a nice person but if somebody says something inappropriate I may or may not let it slide. Maybe you think it’s totally fine for somebody to comment on a stranger’s size, but I don’t, and I think it’s fine to call them out.

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