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[quote=Anonymous][/quote]OP here.

So I pushed it. I asked him what he considered petite.

He said 5’1-5’4 and no more than 125-130lbs.

I told him that some 14 year olds don’t even fit in that category and he blocked me.

Okay, so he proved what a lot of people here were saying--that "petite" is now a word that doesn't just mean short, it means slim. So everyone claiming "oh, he just likes tall girls, it's not about weight" is full of it.

That’s true. It’s the same with “into fitness.” It’s typically just a euphemism for being thin. They would make an exception for a sedentary girl with their body type.

(I still don’t think OP should have pushed it though, unless she was just trying to mess with his head, in which case, brava).

What are you bravaing about? There’s no messing with his head? His head thinks OP is nuts and she proved that point very well.

Oh come on. It can be fun to push somebody on a point like this to make them feel uncomfortable. Like if somebody makes a passive aggressive comment, I don’t let it bother me, I just sweetly ask “oh what do you mean by that?”[quote]

Seriously?  That's not the same thing at all.  OP doesn't know this guy and her only interaction with him has been on this dating site, where he indicated that he was not interested in her due to her size.   A dude like that is not going to feel guilty or uncomfortable.  OP needs to disengage from this and move on, this guy is a loser and not worth more thought or energy.[/quote]

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