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[quote=Anonymous] How old are the other two? Hope you get really REAL responses. Usually people will convince you another kid will bring love & whatever mushy stuff. Truth is kids suck. The sheer amount of sacrifice needed for each is incredible. The covid housebound situation has brought the reality that kids are Work and people need to consciously plan when having them. Many kids are oops situations and some were conceived through miraculous feats. At the end of the day weigh your pluses & minuses, and your mental health. A coworker told me, each additional kid takes resources from the preexisting ones. Even if $$$ is not a problem, there is the additional attention & mental, emotional support that needs to be divided further. So plan accordingly, you already sound hesitant. Maybe leave things as they are. You never know what will come but you definitely know the amount of work coming. Good Luck. Spoken as a parent :) [/quote]
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