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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just the mere fact that your S/O knows how you feel yet refuses to cease communicating is a clear sign that your feelings are not a priority for him.

You need to speak w/your ex - you two are co-parenting.

That is so different than maintaining a friendship w/an ex.[/quote]

OP: I agree. When I bring it up, he says I'm "jealous" and that I throw a "tantrum" when I can't have all of his attention for myself. Eyeroll forever. It has absolutely nothing to do with his attention, and everything to do with who he's giving it to.[/quote]

Op, you’re an affair.  You’re his side piece.  He won’t tell his ex-wife about you, because his ex-wife will stop talking to him if she knows he’s sleeping with someone else.  You’re his #2.  She is his #1.  Either agree to that position, or throw him out and move on with your life.

Seriously, I watched my BIL do something similar.  He got a divorce and a girlfriend, and never told his ex-wife or daughter about the girlfriend.   Girlfriend put up with it for five years.  She finally insisted on meeting his daughter.  Guess what happened?  They broke up.  It only worked for him if his ex-wife didn’t know about her.  I am sure his ex-wife thinks they’ll get back together someday.   BIL wants to keep that fantasy going because it makes his life easier.   Keeping that part of his life the way he wants it was more important than keeping his gf happy.  She was a lovely girl, I’m sorry to see her go, but for her own sake I’m glad they’re done.   No one should be happy with being a secret for years on end.  It’s not okay.  [/quote]

How's someone an affair if he's not married...? np[/quote]

Op dated the guy for two years before the divorce was final.  It’s in another thread.  [/quote]

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