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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP: For those asking, she doesn't know about me, and I've never met her. I've asked many times if I could meet someone so important to him. BF says it's none of her business what his love life is like now.[/quote]

OP, It doesn't matter what other people think here, its what you feel and it doesnt sit right with you.

If you do want validation, however, yes the situation is messed up and you are not important to your boyfrend.  I have no issues with remaining friendly with an ex, but the fact that he texts her daily tells me that she occupies a lot of his mental and emotional real estate that should be reserved for you, his current partner, not his ex. I think what's bothering you is that he clearly needs to be in contact with her all the time, even though it upsets you. A more considerate partner would dial back on the daily texting.

Secondly, the fact that she does't know about you is mind blowing. He's basically keeping her around and keeping you at arms length. His answer is completely wrong--again, he is focused on her, none of "her business", but what about you? It is absolutely your business to meet someone who spends so much time with your boyfriend (virtual or not). The fact that he's hiding you from her and vice versa is completely messed up.

Please break up and then figure out why you think this is okay for THREE YEARS. [/quote]

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