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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get the OP is from an oppressive culture/religious background.  If you are going to date someone outside our own oppressive family's culture- do yourself a favor and at least don't pick someone with an equally oppressive culture they are bound to.  JFC, do please never learn? [/quote]

The problem is people from similar oppressive culture/religious backgrounds seems to understand me better. I think even if the culture itself is different, the mentality is the same. The typical American has no understanding of these things. I do not care anymore. I am in my 40s...I am over the family crap...he said he was the same....but apparently not. I actually now think he just never dealt with it and thought it would go away and he could “age out” of the family pressure by avoiding it. I think he thought at this age, it would not be as big of a deal, but he is wrong. [/quote]

Seek therapy.  You have tons of hang ups from your family/culture[/quote]

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