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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some adults just suck.

I don’t care how much you hate your ex, your kids’ relationship with their parents shouldn’t be negatively impacted. Grown-ups should minimize the impact of divorce on their kids. That means: kids don’t have two bedrooms; kids stay in the family home, and parents move around. The grown-ups agree they will always be a family. That means the kids have both parents at milestone events.

Can you imagine only seeing your kids twice a month? Imagine being a kid who only sees their dad twice a month. That’s just awful. That mom super sucks. I[b] don’t care if he cheated; that’s a “mom” problem, not a kid problem[/b]. [/quote]

This isn't true when the kids are as old as they are n this scenario they likely  know dad cheated, and it's the reason their family broke up and are probably pretty pissed about it, they might not want to spend time with dad and his new girlfriend.  The youngest is 10 here the other 2 are teens, Who know what has gone in that household, the kids might not want to spend time with dad, and it could have nothing to do with mom. We aren't dealing with toddlers and preschoolers here.

As for the rest, parents should be civil, and co-parent together, they should be able to attend events for the child together. The other stuff may sound nice, but in reality, just doesn't work long-term it's better for kids to accept life has changed from the start, but mom and dad will still be there for them.[/quote]

Kids shouldn't be forced to pick between their parents nor supported to.

The real issue here is with OP and why she'd want to be with a man who she knows cheated on his wife, having an affair with her and her biggest worry is him having custody.  He will cheat on her.  [/quote]

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