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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]a female friend?[/quote]

No a male friend. But our issue is actually that he has had homosexual tendencies, so the male friend doesn't provide the same comfort that it would in another situation.
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Um...you cannot fix this.  As a queer person, it is done.  If he has "homosexual tendencies", this likely means he is gay or further on the spectrum toward the same-sex leaning side than he is at this moment willing to admit (maybe to himself as well). If he is bi and is comfortable with never relizing the homosexual potential in this relationship, for live, then that is one thing.  But, if he is struggling with whether or not to live a life "truer" to who he really is, take this disclosure to the close male friend as what it is - a level of intimacy with a male friend that makes you nervous.  Listen to that gut.[/quote]

I keep getting “denial” in everyone of your posts OP.  You keep talking about fixing the marriage.  Unfortunately, the source of the problem is not something to be fixed.  It’s not fixable.  Your husband is gay...or at the very least bisexual with strong homosexual leanings.

He can’t continue to repress and live a lie.  It’s going to ma first in resentment and acting out.  Then, the STI issue is glaring.  Men tend to be way more promiscuous, gay men in particular.   [/quote]

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