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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am not sure I can support my family at 50%. Why we women stay in these relationships and try to work them out. It's a bumpy road for sure. I have bigger issues than this email. It's just a manifestation of my fears and I should deal with them more directly which he says he wants to do now.[/quote]

Oh this is lamentable. Two full time working households are tough.  But the mental freedom that comes from knowing you can just walk away is incredible. Not that one would but that you have options. Anyway, my steps then would be to figure how how I could reach this level of independence in the next 1-2 years and move in that direction. ASAP. The current situation actually provides some opportunities with education being remote as well as many jobs. If you cannot yet cover a portion of the cost of child care while you make your career prospects more robust. Also, you can always think about how you might downsize. Don't let this "trying" falsely string you along. It's not going to work in a way that you will be...happy, ultimately. People cannot alter their sexual orientation. And, unfortunately, the life he's built with you is the barrier impeding his full self realization, whether or not he suppresses that for the rest of his life. It just doesn't put you in a place where you would be fully appreciated, cherished, loved for the whole of who you are, which is really foundational for a good marriage.[/quote]

Thanks. I am working on this while also working on the marriage in hopes that it will fix me and the marriage or at least one of them. I will also try to stop sweating the smaller stuff like the emails.[/quote]

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