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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he shared your email that referenced issues with your sex life, and the issue with your sex life is that he cheated with a man, I'm pretty sure the friend understands his transgressions.[/quote]

The email was issues that we were having in bed together and how I wanted to address them. He didn't share anything about his cheating or any bisexual issues with his friend. It's 2020. A lot of communication is done via email or text. We lead busy lives with work and kids. Maybe we could talk more in person if we worked together on the farm, but we don't.[/quote]

For the love - you are having issues in bed because you are not a dude and he wants to sleep with dudes. Maybe only 50% of the time or 40% of the time or 80% of the time.  Who knows? Only him.  But it is over.  I am so sorry.  But you MUST know this.  The kind thing to do for yourself is figure out how to end it without it tapering off into some painful multi-year thing that you drag your kids through after which you end up in the exact same place.  You lack critical body parts and critical gender orientation(s) that he is interested in for whatever reason now vs. when you got married.[/quote]

NP here.  OP, listen to this PP.  And you are not alone.  I'm currently divorcing my husband, who cheated on me with men but claims to have no attraction to men and will no doubt start dating another woman soon.  Before this, I did not know there were such deeply closeted men still in 2020, from a liberal, nonreligious family, in a metropolis, so closeted that they can't even admit it to themselves.  But now I know better.  It will take you time to understand that there's no saving this, but I hope you get there sooner rather than later.  It's ultimately freeing.  Good luck.[/quote]

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