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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP answering questions: -- we do not know the birth mother's date of birth or businessman's name -- we know the town where the birth mother lived -- the adoption was in the former Yugoslavia, but not Slovenia (do not want to say more because I might out myself) [b]We do not want to ruin this woman's life. But at the same time, wonder if she would like to know what happened to her daughter[/b].[/quote] She doesn't want to be found. She does want to know. Leave her alone. It's a closed adoption. You knew that going in. Move along. It's fears like this which make make people abort. This could haunt you down the road. Abortion is safer. I'm from that area Bosnia & Croatia. This would be scandalous.[/quote]
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