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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, two baby mamas make you not so attractive, so you'd better have a big bank account to up your value.

Next, no, you're not looking for a unicorn.  There are many women who will have no interest in your kids.  The problem is, she'll want you to also have no interest in your kids.

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Wait! OP has 2 i=different women as mothers to his children and is 45 and doesn't want to date anyone over 30?   This is a mess.

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No, I do not. Someone made that up. I have one ex, who is the mother of both my kids. I also never said I didn't want to date anyone over 30. I even said I was not trying to find a 25 year old. The people who are making stuff up are the mess.[/quote]

You said the idea of dating women your own age was hard to swallow. A woman in her thirties does not want to date a man who has kids in elementary school but doesn’t want any more kids. You need to target women around your age. There are plenty of them.[/quote]

Again, no, I didn't say that. I said that limiting myself to 45+ was hard to swallow because of how narrow the pool of potential matches becomes, which is definitely not the same as dating my own age is hard to swallow. I don't have a fixed age range in mind. Maybe 35-50? Someone who's fit at whatever age (as am I). She doesn't have to be rich, but I'm also not interested in being a sugar daddy.

Anyway, there have been a lot of helpful posts. Thanks for those.[/quote]

It doesn’t matter that it’s hard to swallow, because it’s reality.  People aren’t telling you to date your own age or older because they’re setting some arbitrary line based on principles, they’re saying it because the reality of your situation and your dating preferences are that you’re unlikely to find what you’re looking for in a women younger than that.  If you can find a 38 yo who doesn’t want kids but wants to be a stepmom and is fit and is sufficiently financially secure to meet your standards and doesn’t mind scheduling her social life around your custody schedule and who connects with you enough to want a relationship, you’re set.[/quote]

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