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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH stayed with me. It’s really not that big of a deal. It’s not a break the family up situation unless you’re puritanical.

I hope in several hundred years we wipe out monogamy. It’s a plague on fun and our natural proclivities.[/quote]

You don’t have to wait several hundred years, as long as your spouse is aware of your ‘natural proclivities’ beforehand. No-one likes having decisions made without their knowledge. t seems you were the cheater. Does your DH also feel it was no big deal?[/quote]

Gross.  He must be a Beta Max.

Men usually take the cheating much harder than women.  I’m guessing he doesn’t care because he doesn’t love you and has already written off the marriage.[/quote]

He’s probably gay and doesn’t bang her anyway.[/quote]

Yes. Something is definitely wrong there.  Anyone who could care less about lies and betrayal has some issues of co-dependency or really already turned away from their spouse and has no feelings.  Apathy is what kills a relationship.  If there is anger after, there is emotion there. When someone doesn’t even care...there is no love.[/quote]

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